Welcome to another episode of the Me Skills Podcast, where we lean into self-love and great ideas that build a better life. In this episode, your hosts Kelly and Tish are joined by special guest Cindy Bidar.

We chat with Cindy about self-coaching. Yep, you can self-coach yourself and it’s not complicated at all! Listen in as Cindy shares a few examples of how she uses self-coaching in her life/business.

This conversation was also perfect timing for something Tish was dealing with and they go into detail and chat about that where Kelly points out fixed mindset versus growth mindset.

(Note: this episode, as usual, contains swearing. 😉)

About Cindy: Cindy Bidar is a small business consultant. She works with new coaches, course creators, and content marketers to help them attract their ideal client, grow their email lists, and market their businesses more effectively without hiring a big team or wasting time on social media.

Note Worthy Timestamps:

[00:15:12] – Most of Cindy’s self-coaching sessions involve these two simple things.

[00:16:10] – Cindy dismissed mindset work for years because she thought it was a bunch of bullshit.

[00:16:28] – What happened that changed Cindy’s perspective about mindset work.

[00:25:15] – Kelly shares some things she wrote down in her shadow journal

[00:38:01] – Tish shares her interesting encounter with a stranger, she had breakfast with, and a question that person asked. The question that sent her into an emotional whirlwind.

[01:04:25] – Kelly shares some thoughts as a follow-up from our conversation & her perspective on Tish’s meeting the stranger she had breakfast with.

Key Takeaways: 

Here are some key points you’ll take away from this episode:

·      Understanding mindset: thoughts create feelings, actions, results.

·      Fixed vs. Growth Mindsets

·      Writing releases power and fear from thoughts.

·      Navigating body positivity and growth mindset challenges.

·      Cindy’s view on incremental mindset changes (importance of small steps in self-transformation).

·      Self-coaching techniques such as stream of consciousness writing.

Next week we’ll be chatting about our Future Selves. A perfect follow-up to this conversation about self-coaching. 

Resources Mentioned:

·      Brooke Castillio: The Life Coach School Podcast

·      Julia Cameron: The Artist’s Way Book